That buddy is funny! I've seen a few of his vids. Worth a watch.
good find Panzer
there's a two hour version
(but I might save up that till I'm doing some mindless work).
A problem for me, and probably many others, is that the 'nothing box' has been replaced with the internet, which is about the opposite of nothing.
Re the 'fixing things' approach (when someone tells you their troubles), that's not just a men thing - a lot of women do that too.
And going back to men doing 'nothing' on occasion, and women not understanding it - here's a sketch from Loriot (
unfortunately I couldnt find any version with English subtitles) so only accessible if you have a bit of German
called 'Feierabend' - man home from work, sitting in armchair, woman keeps asking what he's doing/thinking/would-he-not-like-to-go-for-a-walk/or-do-something-fun etc etc till he loses the cool at the end