The schism/stepping off point is (or seems to be) cost. For the cost of 10TB of BestBuy class NAS boxes one could easily just get a refurbished commercial server that will always have parts available, is designed to take 100+ times the beating you'll ever give it, and it has a proper true hardware RAID controller ... With a year warranty ... For roughly the same price.
-Stoic Joker
The running cost, the noise, the heat, the storage space... all for just 10TB in a home storage context? Hardly worth it IMHO.
I'm going OT a bit to look at this from another perspective,
do we really need the "redundancy and high availability" for this kind of usage? I used to deploy RAID 10, get my AV content carefully ripped, well organized, double-checked for corruption... only to have the majority of content replaced in less than a year due to newer releases which entail better content, higher definition, 2D->3D, etc.
Take
Avatar (2009) for example (I assume most of you have watched it by now), I had over 150GB data turnover on this particular title alone.
1. Avatar BD
1080p - Ripped, organized, verified, gave away and removed from storage.
2. Avatar BD
3D 1080p - Ripped, organized, verified, gave away and removed from storage.
3. Avatar Extended Collector's Edition
1080p - Ripped, organized, verified, gave away and removed from storage.
4. Avatar Extended Collector's Edition
3D 1080p - Ripped, organized, verified, currently in use, hopefully it'll last another year or so before they re-master it to go beyond 1080p.
Same theory applies to audio as well, at least in the genres that I listen to (DTS Master HD soundtracks and classics).
Thus there's not much reason to spend so much money and effort to have HA storage in the home media context.
The content is disposable and is likely to be phased out before you have a clue.