It's one thing to have an explicit agreement with your young kids that you are going to be monitoring their online/mobile activity in exchange for them getting such a device. But doing it secretly seems like it's teaching them some wrong lessons.
-mouser
Well, that might be true
if you told them about it, but not if you
kept it a secret. True?
In any event, whilst I used to be ambivalent towards the idea of "spying" on one's children - because I could see points on either side - from personal experience I would have to come down firmly on the side of the case
for spying. I do mean
spying, and that implies that it is to be kept
secret.
(See rest of post -
here.)