G Lock Easy mail looks good. I tried a simple 3 person group and lo and behold each recipient ONLY had his name - even better than ' Undisclosed recipients "
I guess that is because it is designed for mass mailings
And of course you are correct whe nyou said I send from any account I am able to. I of course had to set it up using My SMPT.
But I think this fits the bill Thank you.
I knew Donation Coder would steer me in the right direction and all in less than and hour and a half. !!!!