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Living Room / Re: Am I the only person that has a real big problem with software like this?
« Last post by 40hz on October 05, 2013, 10:09 AM »I wish you guys would distinguish in your arguments between the case for monitoring a child's cellphone/gps with vs without their knowledge. To me this is the critical factor distinguishing appropriate from inappropriate.-mouser (October 05, 2013, 09:38 AM)
I politely disagree. To monitor is to send a message you don't trust the person being monitored. And that is corrosive to a relationship regardless of whether the distrust is open or covert. And doing whats "legal" (i.e. what you can get away with) is not the necessarily the same thing as doing what's right.
Much like the NSA's repeated insistence that everything it does is "within the law" it's still all word games.
The fundamental distinction is whether or not you believe someone can be trusted. Once that decision has been made it just becomes a matter of choice of which preemptive actions will be taken plus some spin control afterwards.
I'm still old fashioned enough to not accept somebody needs to "prove" their innocence or integrity in advance. I judge a person for what they've done or not done. Not for something they might someday do. And I flat out reject any attempt at prejudgements based on a hunch or act of imagination fueled by paranoia and one's personal hangups or grudges.

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