Ok JoTo. I didn't think my post out to well. To be honest, I am now not sure what color her cursor is.

I know it has black on her big 17" laptop (XP) but it has white back ground. On her smaller 10" laptop (Vista) it is black background so it is probably white there. I believe that she would be interested in your cursor if you don't mind sharing.
I am not sure how she will feel about Windows but she does have an open mnd about it.
one of the problems with the black background is in her Windows Live Mail desktop program. If she creates a new mail, then the blackground is black and people cannot read it. If she forwards or replies, it ignores her background and uses the original senders so its ok. I have tried changing the settings on live but I only make it worse.