Well, I really just posted this as something that's working for me with the hope that it might be of use to someone else.
I really didn't expect a disagreement, especially since you don't list any alternatives that you thinks might work better.
Similarly, SKesselman's method is akin to doing your homework because your teacher will spank you in class and give you a failing grade. -Paul Keith
hmm...I don't know about getting
spanked, but yes, avoiding punishment does motivate me. Why shouldn't it? Why else do people pay their bills, show up for traffic court, or make bank deposits? Fear. Nothing wrong with that, if it's saving you money, time and of course, your self respect.
...but applied as a system, it's not really going to make you do the things you want-Paul Keith
Sure it does.
'Want' and 'don't want' are two sides of the same coin, are they not?
Example 1: The mailI hate mailing birthday cards, I'm afraid they'll never reach their destination. I hate my handwriting. Maybe they're expecting a gift. Anxiety. Procrastination. But, if I
want to let someone know they're being thought of on their birthday, I can put their card on the door until it's filled out and sent

. The punishment for not doing so is feeling guilty and weak for succumbing to my own silly little fears.
Example 2: the vetSeeing my cat frightened, yowling and in caged up is very upsetting to me...but I
want to take care of her, so I put her vet appt. cards on the door to remind myself to prepare for them, and take her in. The punishment for not doing this is that I could cause her to suffer preventable health problems. And knowing I'm being a hypocrite ("I love my cat sooo much".). Right.
but make you pretend you need an annoying system for the things you already could've done without it. -Paul Keith
Pretend? I very much needed this system. I made it up for myself, & it's worked for long enough that I think it's worthy of being posted.
People are really surprised now when they remind me of something, that it's already -done-.
Another benefit I forgot to mention in my initial post is that this system keeps my hands in what I"m doing. I have a feel for my tasks now that I didn't have when I used the computer, no matter how often I saw, or even worked with, a to do list. And, my memory is improving. I know what's on my door, and I know that whatever reminds me to do it will never be lost in any of the multiple systems I've tried. I don't know why, but I cannot tell you what's on my Outlook calendar; even if it mirrors what's in my wallet calendar, and I see it every day. But, I can tell you everything on my wallet calendar, at any given time. Even when I only look at it once a week. Weird, but paper can actually help some people.
I also don't have to sort tasks by how much time it will take. I grab 2 quick tasks off the door, and get going on one lenghly one.
All in all, for people like myself, this can be quite successful

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