The closest thing to a meta-search site is
Omgili, but lacks all the other functions, and it's not well-known. In fact, if it wasn't for being included as an alias with FARR, I wouldn't be aware of its existence.
There's also
Big Boards, which compiles some statistics about forums, but it's a bit limited as many forums are not listed there (mostly because of the site focus). So I think it could be an interesting idea, not so sure as how to make it possible.
EDIT1: A search in Google for some information about an unrelated thing unearthed two search engines:
WASAlive, which appears to search in forums and blog comments to find out what's hot at the moment (Macbook Air, Tom Cruise and, Brad Renfro?), and
BoardReader, this one appears to be quite more interesting, with stats for the things you search, seems more advanced than the other
EDIT2: Rewrote a sentence in the first paragraph a bit, and removed a redundant phrase in EDIT1