A police friend of mine once told me they busted a guy with a ring and a baby seat in the back. That's low.
-wraith808
Really, why? ...Maybe he wanted to try something that his wife didn't. Is he really obligated to be stuck eternally wondering what it would be like? Why is that fair?
-Stoic Joker
Because he agreed to it? And there's another uninvolved person whose life is totally affected by his choice. If he gets something and passes it on to her... if both of them die of some infectious disease and leave the child alone... does that still fall in the realm of fair?
You don't have to get married- that's your prerogative, and many people are choosing that these days since marriage isn't such an imperative. And you can get a divorce... that's becoming easier and easier.
But if you choose to commit, you should choose to treat that commitment (and the person you're committed to) with a modicum of decency and basic humanity, and not go around lying behind the person's back. And before the whole "maybe it was agreed upon" argument comes up, he was begging to be let go with a warning so his wife wouldn't find out... so yes, the whole lying thing was present and in full effect.
Sorry. Doing what this person did is plain evil. And like most things truly evil, it's amazing how utterly pointless and banal it is in its practice and intent.
-40hz
Bad yes. Reprehensible yes. Evil? Well, we have a different definition of that. I leave that to the people who do more than troll on the internet. But the differences in definition are fine. But when someone says that the people that shot the Pakistani girl were evil and you lump him in with it... well, you have too wide a spectrum there in my opinion.
Use of certain words in hyperbole IMO reduces the effectiveness of them when they are accurately used. Racism, bigotry, homophobia, rape... they are used too commonly now, which water the terms down. And IMO, this is a prime example of hyperbole.
anyone as is consenting
-Stoic Joker
It's an ugly business. Until you see up close how it actually operates, you have no idea just how ugly it can be.
-40hz
I totally agree with this. It definitely doesn't just need to be legalized- but regulated in some way (which legalization would help) to get rid of some of the seamier practices that go along with it. 40 uses the example of a 14 year old... but the same thing applies to a 25 year old with two kids and no other way to make ends meet worried about offending her pimp. Despair is a big part of that part of the industry that makes it as ugly as 40 says, and then some.