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i have the utmost respect for the long time members on this site - i consider myself good friends with f0dder and in fact. i'll let them speak for themselves if they feel i've treated them unfairly. i respect your views - i might suggest though that you may be reading too much into my criticisms of them. i'm pretty sure they understand through my other conversations in private with them how much we value them. it's more of giving them a friendly little rap accross the knuckles here to let them know that as long term members they are expected to lift up the forum in terms of friendliness and professionalism and courtesy, and not get drawn into the muck even if their tempers get riled up.
we do make an extra effort to make new visitors feel welcome, and try hard to keep things friendly and respectful, and make new visitors feel comfortable posting. in general i think people know by now that i don't like locking threads - i tend to feel like it's better to let these things burn out on their own, which they inevitably do, rather than end with people still feeling like they wanted to get in one last word..