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Living Room / Re: Am I the only person that has a real big problem with software like this?
« Last post by Renegade on October 07, 2013, 09:50 AM »My question revolves more around a ubiquitous and total (via software) NSA-like scoop and recording of all actions taken during a particular activity such as email or web browsing. Because that is exactly what this software does.-40hz (October 07, 2013, 09:25 AM)
Some kids probably need it.
I know one kid where the first time I met him I knew what he was all about... drugs, hanging out with friends, getting into the criminal side of all that... you can imagine.
His parents knew jack about it.
The kid's family had a rough go as dad got cancer and went downhill. He died. It sapped the family financially. Mom worked her butt off to try and save the house so that they'd have a place to live... i.e. Mom & dad weren't around much for him for understandable reasons.
Would some kind of monitoring have helped? Maybe. Could be the problem was there well beforehand.
Doesn't matter much though as there apparently wasn't any early prevention there, and he ended up being monitored by the state in juvie, etc. etc.
But for a full feature set of monitoring capabilities, well, using them all is probably a bad idea.
That's the difference (in my mind) between parenting and *electronic monitoring* - which is something I find completely misguided at best, and utterly reprehensible in practice.-40hz (October 07, 2013, 09:25 AM)
So it's the degree? The "complete control" thing is what bothers you?
For the most part, I think that's right. (With the caveat that some kids actually NEED extreme discipline - I'm sure everyone knows the self-destructive types.)
While it may "take a village" to raise a child (and I have my doubts about thattheoryfolk mantra as well) it certainly doesn't require software and an electronic device to do it.-40hz (October 07, 2013, 09:25 AM)
I hate that saying.

You can't attempt to automate social responsibility or parenting without losing some of our humanity in the process.-40hz (October 07, 2013, 09:25 AM)
Some people will certainly try!

There are so, so many ways for us to surrender our humanity... And so, so many people willing to throw theirs away...
Keep us 'safe'! Yeah, right.