Okay, I am back. Daughter is at school now, so I can continue...
The Android platform IS better for 2 reasons (and only 2) that I can think of.
1) They are more friendly to developers. Anyone on any platform can program, test, and install programs. That is a BIG plus. Come on Apple. You need an Apple computer to program for the iPhone? Really? Why? What is so FABULOUS about Macs that no one else can even see the light of day let alone make an IDE for? I mean it isn't as if Visual Studio is the single largest, most accepted, feature rich development platform in existence or anything....
2) They do not limit competing programs on the marketplace. Well this is not confirmed, but it isn't well known like Apple either. You want to create a feature-rich email app on the iPhone? Isn't going to make it to their marketplace if they have any say (and they generally do). That is why Cydia is nearly as popular and as app plentiful as the Android Marketplace.
IF either of these are important to you AND you can live with the limitations mentioned in the earlier post, than the Android platform probably is for you. Most of the rest of the differences are smoke and mirrors from what I have seen. Flash? Only if you have Android 2.2, which many phones still do not have yet (though this is as close to #3 as I can think of). Once it is widespread on the Android and/or Windows 7 Phone platforms, expect it to miraculously come to the iOS too. Multitasking? iOS 4 supports it too, and (at least on the iPhone 4 hardware) it is implemented the same as the Android multitasking. Like any high competition arenas, don't expect iOS to roll over and play dead, just because they don't have a feature someone else does. Moreover, they are generally more easy to use for most people as Renegade has mentioned obliquely in his UX discussions, so I think these changes will be instituted in short order when it starts hitting them in sales. Until then, I don't see a clear cut winner between any platform coming out soon. Use what works for you, but do make sure it isn't just jumping on the bandwagon based on the common fallacies out there.